In order for the little lost lovers to meet, they must wait for each other.

In case you ever foolishly forget; I am never not thinking of you.
- Virginia Woolf  (via hourae)
Jul 21st
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What I mean when I say “I can’t do that”- Anxiety Version:

  • I am unable to do that
  • I am too stressed out to do that
  • I cannot face the humiliation of attempting to do that
  • My body will physically not allow me to do that
  • I am on the verge of a panic attack
  • I cannot do that

What people hear:

  • I am unwilling to do that
  • I am just shy
  • I am overreacting
  • I am lazy
  • I need to get more experience in social situation to help my anxiety
  • I need a push
  • I don’t want to do that

Inspired by X



I do find it funny that lesbians are perceived as man-hating but gay men are not perceived as woman-hating, and in fact are often illogically shielded from accusations of misogyny simply by being gay

weird it’s like male privilege works even when queerness is involved who knew


because in English there is no good way to explain a very deep, often, platonic, love and understanding between two people of the same or opposite sex. The closest thing we have is best friend and that doesn’t dig deep enough for some people or explain the absolute love



Can we stop using “intimate” as a synonym for sexual?

Yes. Please. There are other kinds of intimacy, after all!

  • romantic intimacy
  • physical but non-sexual intimacy (hugging, cuddling, etc.)
  • emotional intimacy
  • intellectual intimacy (where…
Jul 21st
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you’re important to me you piece of shit

Don’t you hate

those one sided friendships? You put in 100% and get 10% of effort thrown in your face. You hit them up and initiate a conversation and they don’t reply for days but when they need something you’re expected to reply straight away. They claim to have your back if anything happens when really they don’t give two fucks about you. Fuck those people.